
Party guide
Glam Black Tie: A New Year's Eve Dinner Party
Tuxes and gowns, a seated dinner by candlelight, and champagne at midnight. Best for 6 to 10 people. The menu is classic steakhouse: almost all of it can be done ahead, so you're at the table in your gown.
Host tip: Get dressed before the last kitchen tasks and finish them in an apron, so you're ready the minute the doorbell rings.
The menu
Drinks and ice
- Martinis, classic or dirty: recipe
- A good red with dinner, and champagne at midnight
- An alcohol-free option: a "nojito" or a sparkling NA wine
One big clear cube
For anything served on the rocks, use one large clear cube per glass. It melts slowly and looks like a cocktail bar. Martinis themselves are served straight up in a chilled glass: keep the glasses in the freezer until you pour. How to make clear ice
Make ahead
- 3 days before: Make the clear ice. Order the tenderloin from the butcher and ask them to trim and tie it.
- 1 day before: Bake, fill and refrigerate the twice-baked potatoes. Make the lava cake batter and fill the ramekins. Make the cocktail sauce. Set the table formally.
- Day of, 2 hours out: Tenderloin out of the fridge; martini glasses into the freezer. Cook the shrimp and chill.
- 1 hour out: Roast the tenderloin (about 45 minutes) and let it rest. Potatoes in.
- During dinner: Sauté the green beans at the last minute. Lava cakes in the oven as the plates clear.
The music
The 25 songs
- Sing, Sing, Sing, Benny Goodman
- In the Mood, Glenn Miller
- Puttin' On the Ritz, Fred Astaire
- Ain't That a Kick in the Head, Dean Martin
- Mack the Knife, Bobby Darin
- Beyond the Sea, Bobby Darin
- It Don't Mean a Thing (If It Ain't Got That Swing), Duke Ellington
- Take the "A" Train, Duke Ellington
- Young and Beautiful, Lana Del Rey
- A Little Party Never Killed Nobody (All We Got), Fergie, Q-Tip & GoonRock
- Feeling Good, Michael Bublé
- L-O-V-E, Nat King Cole
- The Lady Is a Tramp, Frank Sinatra
- New York, New York, Frank Sinatra
- Come Fly with Me, Frank Sinatra
- Fever, Peggy Lee
- Big Spender, Shirley Bassey
- Diamonds Are Forever, Shirley Bassey
- Let's Face the Music and Dance, Nat King Cole
- Witchcraft, Frank Sinatra
- Jump, Jive an' Wail, The Brian Setzer Orchestra
- Everybody Loves Somebody, Dean Martin
- That's Amore, Dean Martin
- The Best Is Yet to Come, Frank Sinatra
- I've Got the World on a String, Frank Sinatra
Little touches
A gift for the host
What guests can bring.
A bottle of champagne or a good red
To take home
A little something at the door.
A small gold-wrapped chocolate or a mini bottle of bubbly
Something to do
Place cards with a question on the back, and a toast from each guest at midnight
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