
Party guide
A Girls' Night
Couch, blankets, something warm in the oven and the kind of conversation that goes until 1am. It works as a night in or as the pregame before a night out.
Host tip: Keep a basket of blankets by the couch and the snacks within reach, so you can all stay put once the conversation gets good.
The menu
Drinks and ice
- Espresso martinis (see cocktail cards)
- A bottle of rosé or a crisp white
- An alcohol-free version: espresso, simple syrup and cream, shaken over ice
Coffee ice cubes
Freeze leftover coffee in an ice tray so iced coffees and the no-alcohol espresso drink stay strong. For wine, a big sphere with a rose petal frozen inside.
Make ahead
- 1 day before: Make the spinach dip (unbaked). Freeze the coffee cubes. Chill the wine.
- Afternoon of: Build the grazing board. Cut fruit for the fondue.
- 1 hour out: Feta pasta in the oven. Dip in after it.
- When friends arrive: Flatbreads in, first round of drinks.
- Later: Melt the chocolate for fondue right before dessert.
The music
The 25 songs
- I'm Every Woman, Chaka Khan
- Confident, Demi Lovato
- Woman, Doja Cat
- Lady (Hear Me Tonight), Modjo
- Independent Women, Pt. 1, Destiny's Child
- Survivor, Destiny's Child
- No Scrubs, TLC
- Waterfalls, TLC
- Say My Name, Destiny's Child
- Hollaback Girl, Gwen Stefani
- Show Me Love, Robin S.
- bad idea right?, Olivia Rodrigo
- Anti-Hero, Taylor Swift
- We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together, Taylor Swift
- Snooze, SZA
- Girl on Fire, Alicia Keys
- Unwritten, Natasha Bedingfield
- Hot N Cold, Katy Perry
- Femininomenon, Chappell Roan
- Bejeweled, Taylor Swift
- New Rules, Dua Lipa
- Ain't It Fun, Paramore
- Shut Up and Drive, Rihanna
- Torn, Natalie Imbruglia
- Dreams, The Cranberries
Little touches
A gift for the host
What guests can bring.
A bottle of wine, a face mask set or fun snacks
To take home
A little something at the door.
None needed, but a face mask or lip balm is a sweet touch
Something to do
Conversation cards, a movie, or a My Favorite Things swap (see Girls' night questions)
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