
Party guide
An Elegant, Candlelit Thanksgiving
A seated dinner where the table does the talking: low light, real napkins, taper candles down the middle and a menu that mostly cooks itself. A turkey breast instead of a whole bird keeps you out of the kitchen and at the table. Best for 6 to 10 guests.
Host tip: Light the candles before the first guest knocks and keep the overhead lights off all night. Use unscented tapers on the table so nothing competes with the food.
The menu
Drinks and ice
Cranberry-rosemary cubes
Drop 3 or 4 fresh cranberries and a short rosemary sprig into each well of a large square silicone tray, top with water and freeze overnight. For coupes, freeze single cranberries in a mini-cube tray so they float. Boil the water and let it cool first for clearer ice. How to freeze fruit and herbs in ice · How to make clear ice
Make ahead
- 2 days before: Make the herb butter and the pots de crème. Freeze the ice cubes.
- 1 day before: Assemble the gratin and refrigerate. Cut the root vegetables. Set the table, candles and place cards.
- Day of, 3 hours out: Take the turkey breast out of the fridge for 30 minutes, then roast (about 1.5 to 2 hours).
- 1 hour out: Bake the gratin and roast the vegetables while the turkey rests.
- When guests arrive: Light the candles, warm the bread, pour the first round.
The music
Dinner jazz and soft standards
The 25 songs
- The Way You Look Tonight, Frank Sinatra
- At Last, Etta James
- La Vie en Rose, Louis Armstrong
- Come Away With Me, Norah Jones
- Fly Me to the Moon, Frank Sinatra
- Cheek to Cheek, Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong
- Feeling Good, Nina Simone
- Moon River, Andy Williams
- Autumn Leaves, Nat King Cole
- Dream a Little Dream of Me, Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong
- Sway, Michael Bublé
- Don't Know Why, Norah Jones
- Cry Me a River, Julie London
- Someone to Watch Over Me, Ella Fitzgerald
- Unforgettable, Nat King Cole
- My Funny Valentine, Chet Baker
- Take Five, The Dave Brubeck Quartet
- Blue in Green, Miles Davis
- Stardust, Nat King Cole
- Embraceable You, Billie Holiday
- They Can't Take That Away from Me, Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong
- Lullaby of Birdland, Sarah Vaughan
- I've Got You Under My Skin, Frank Sinatra
- Everything Happens to Me, Chet Baker
- What a Wonderful World, Louis Armstrong
Little touches
A gift for the host
What guests can bring.
A good bottle of wine or a box of taper candles
To take home
A little something at the door.
A single taper candle tied with ribbon, or a slice of dessert to go
Something to do
Place cards with a question on the back ("Best meal you've ever had?"). Everyone answers theirs between courses.
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