
Party guide
A Relaxed, California-Style Friendsgiving
Big platters, wildflowers, and dinner served straight off the kitchen island. Roast chicken stands in for turkey, the colors are bright, and the whole thing feels like a long lunch that ran late.
Host tip: Buy your flowers and citrus the day before, get more flowers than you think you need, and split them into small jars down the island.
The menu
Drinks and ice
- Rosé, a crisp white and sparkling water with citrus
Flowers frozen in the ice
Use edible flowers only (violas, pansies, small rose petals, from the grocery herb section or online). Fill trays halfway, add the flowers face down, freeze, then top with water and freeze again so they sit in the middle. Thin cucumber ribbons curled into a tall cube are pretty in sparkling water too. How to make floral ice cubes
Make ahead
- 2 days before: Make the flower ice cubes and the cheesecake bars.
- 1 day before: Make the green goddess dip and the mashed potatoes. Cut the crudités and keep them in water.
- Day of, 2 hours out: Chicken in the oven (about 1.5 hours).
- 1 hour out: Slice the citrus and fennel; dress at the last minute.
- Guests arrive: Everything goes on the island on boards and platters.
The music
Laid-back indie and soft rock
The 25 songs
- Dreams, Fleetwood Mac
- Slow Burn, Kacey Musgraves
- Ventura Highway, America
- Electric Feel, MGMT
- Lisztomania, Phoenix
- Banana Pancakes, Jack Johnson
- Island in the Sun, Weezer
- The Less I Know the Better, Tame Impala
- Sunflower, Vol. 6, Harry Styles
- Pink + White, Frank Ocean
- Put Your Records On, Corinne Bailey Rae
- Steal My Sunshine, Len
- Young Folks, Peter Bjorn and John
- Rhiannon, Fleetwood Mac
- Bloom, The Paper Kites
- Sunset Lover, Petit Biscuit
- Coffee, Sylvan Esso
- Budapest, George Ezra
- Tadow, Masego & FKJ
- Space Song, Beach House
- Heat Waves, Glass Animals
- Sweet Disposition, The Temper Trap
- California Dreamin', The Mamas & the Papas
- Free Fallin', Tom Petty
- Malibu, Miley Cyrus
Little touches
A gift for the host
What guests can bring.
Flowers, a good olive oil, or a bottle of rosé
To take home
A little something at the door.
A mini bouquet tied with twine
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